If I date a WHITE GIRL....

Logikal Ethix · Posted: Fri Nov 03, 2006 12:12 pm Post subject: If I date a WHITE GIRL....

If I date a white girl and me being a "concious" black male... does this make me Contradictory?
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mentalbloc · Student Joined: 04 Oct 2006 Posts: 45

Retrospect* · Student Joined: 15 Oct 2006 Posts: 8

Hmm. I guess it would depend on the reasons you were with this white girl. If you strictly dated white girls period, that would be a different story...
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FireAndFlame · Student Joined: 14 Sep 2006 Posts: 44

Yo, if ya date a white gyal for love, than let no man tell you what you can do.

If it's because yo want society to see you as a "respectable" balck man cause you landed a white gyal, then you a fraud nigga. SImple and plain!

Love is love.
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CRACKA · A.K.A. Slick Rick Joined: 20 Nov 2006 Posts: 10

Whatever, you're doing the white man a service. Most brothas only like fat ugly white chix anyways.

Who gives a shit what anyone says anyways, fuck the police and fuck the haters.
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Intro · Student Joined: 14 Nov 2006 Posts: 23 Location: Toronto

Not at all. That's kinda a racist query...lol...

Rich vs poor.

Can't emphasize that enough.

CRACKA · A.K.A. Slick Rick Joined: 20 Nov 2006 Posts: 10

No, the question in general is retarded and i could only muster up an even more retarded response.

I'm just waiting for someone to tell this young black youth that the real root of the problem is the white man.

If you really care what people think then you better not date a white chick.
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Intro · Student Joined: 14 Nov 2006 Posts: 23 Location: Toronto

amanda_artis · Posted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:38 pm Post subject:

Paraphrasing El-Hajj Malik El-Shabazz, dating/marrying outside your race shows that you dislike yourself and your people. Being a sista, deperately looking for a strong king, I have to say that I definitely get disgusted when I see Black men who claim to be about African people but be with some chick other than an African woman. It deeply disturbs me. I truly wish Malcolm was alive to see how far we have fallen.

CRACKA · A.K.A. Slick Rick Joined: 20 Nov 2006 Posts: 10

The Biz · Posted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 7:02 am Post subject:

Stop flame-bating the girl "Slick" Rick. Razz

You're just mad cause Buffy the Body won't return your calls Cool

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-Free- · Student Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Toronto

In a sense..Me personally when i see a black man with a white chyck..its kinda like WTF?...i feel disrespected in a way because it sends out a message that black women may not be good enough for the brotha..and to be honest SOME white chycks take it to the extent that blackmen go for white women because they want kids that look good..now thats just straight bullshit!...you see brothas with good jobs and their going places in life and you look behind him and u see a white woman..thats a setback..because it shows that with their success and education they act like their too good for their own people.Blackmen need to remember where they came from,And who endured the struggle with them. having a white chyck on ur arm,wont make u any more of a man, society will just look down on u even more.
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krisk · Student Joined: 05 Dec 2006 Posts: 1

being a "conscious" black man shouldnt have anything to do with what race u choose to date..its how u choose to live your life..

can i not be a proud strong white women if i decide to date a black man or any other race? by dating a black man im not saying that i dislike my own culture..or think hes any better bc he wants to be with me, a white women..
im sharing my life with someone...someone who i love..regardless of the colour of their skin
and until ppl can look past something so ridiculous..there will continue to be inequality and racism

i would never ever tell a white man that i disrespected him for dating a black women..so is disgusting to me that this is said about white women and black men

Intro · Student Joined: 14 Nov 2006 Posts: 23 Location: Toronto

It's incredibly shallow to judge someone's 'datability' by their colour...that's so fucked up. Lemme show you a red herring.

Let's assume that you're a black male (which most of you are). Now, let's assume there's 50 black chicks and 50 white chicks. Let's also assume that the black chicks are RUDE, dirty, disrespectful, smelly, stupid, and just...disgusting. Lastly, assume the white girls are generally nice, have good hygeine and are relatively intelligent...who would you choose? Your choice should have nothing to do with skin colour.

Now, I wanna MAKE SURE I CLARIFY that I don't think black women are any of those things (although some are lol), and that I don't think white women are necessarily all of those things either (although a proportion are).

If you chose the black girl in that scenario, you are FUCKED UP. You're a racist, no better than the "oppressers" you claim.

Your choices in life should not be about colour, but about intentions and what reflects your best interest...I've seen the best of both worlds with all races...

The more I read on this site, the more it makes me want to write an essay, and the more it makes me ashamed to be part of a race with such fucked up ideas and views...

Peace.

naz_t_kev · Student Joined: 10 Dec 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Toronto

If you believe in love this question is irrelevent cause if you love who you are than no one can question it. If you love a person of another colour - and I mean truly love - then you would not question that either. People cannot keep segregating love by colour. I love me and who I am. And who I am with does not make my conciousness or self respect. In fact if I can love myself and speak highly of who me and my people are and still love someone of the other race then I consider myself stronger than those who segrate love by colour and profess to be a strong lover of their race. And if we have children and I raise them to see the negative and beauty of each side or race they come from and I teach them to live in a way that would treat everyone as equal and teach others by example and verbal knowledge - then my work is done.

But only if I believe in true love. The question now is do YOU believe in true love?
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